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Newsletter 75: 31 tweets from mentors I never met
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Newsletter 75: 31 tweets from mentors I never met

It’s my 31st birthday.

Viktor
Dec 6, 2021
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Newsletter 75: 31 tweets from mentors I never met
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I am getting old.

It’s my 31st birthday. Given how much I have been writing lately, it feels right to document some of my learnings so far in life.

Given that I probably won’t share anything new, here you go, my favorite tweets from mentors I never met.

That’s my birthday present to all of you.


1. Fall in love with writing

Twitter avatar for @CooopahtroopaCoopahtroopa (🔥,🔥) @Cooopahtroopa
Fall in love with writing. Write about everything that you love, as often as you can. It is the single greatest skill you can train. I would not be where I am today without writing. Gn.

November 26th 2021

30 Retweets411 Likes

My best decision of the past two years has been to write consistently. It helps you get clarity of thought. Nurture relationships. Attract like-minded people. Learn, and build portfolios in new fields.


2. Nurture your curiosity

Twitter avatar for @samaSam Altman @sama
I studied groups that have made outstanding technological achievements. What they have in common: Curiosity, a big vision, an initial attack vector, a way to measure progress, people oriented towards rapid advancement, and a relentless focus on the few things that matter.

June 18th 2021

785 Retweets4,935 Likes

I believe it all starts with curiosity. If I was not curious 11 years ago, I would have never left my home country, studied abroad, traveled the world, and reached where I am today.


3. Work hard to make something appear effortless

Twitter avatar for @SahilBloomSahil Bloom @SahilBloom
The Effort Paradox You have to put in more effort to make something appear effortless. Effortless, elegant performances are often the result of a large volume of effortful, gritty practice. Small things become big things. Simple is not simple.

November 21st 2021

1,404 Retweets11,436 Likes

There is a lot of talk about working smart instead of hard. However, to learn to work smart, you have to work hard first.


4. It’s okay to look stupid

Twitter avatar for @brian_armstrongBrian Armstrong @brian_armstrong
Great articulation: willingness to look stupid is a valuable skill. When learning some new topic I often feel stupid. When trying new ideas people often think they are stupid (e.g. starting Coinbase was like this). When diagnosing problems I like asking dumb questions.

Dan Luu @danluu

Willingness to look stupid https://t.co/0WrVAzLQ6g https://t.co/6NjysMwbch

October 22nd 2021

191 Retweets1,151 Likes

We are often scared not to appear “stupid.” But how can you understand the foundations of a new field if you do not ask stupid questions?


5. Planning is underrated

Twitter avatar for @eshearEmmett Shear @eshear
Plans are useless, but planning is essential.

June 9th 2021

87 Retweets1,031 Likes

As the saying goes, “strong opinions, loosely held.” Always plan but embrace how things rarely unfold in accordance with our plans.


6. Surround yourself with great people but be ready to pay the price

Twitter avatar for @jouleeJulie Zhuo @joulee
If you surround yourself with great people, you're going to get better faster. But the price you pay is the constant feeling of inadequacy. 1/5

September 1st 2021

1,202 Retweets5,934 Likes

If you are the smartest person in the room, you are in the wrong room.


7. Learn to listen before you speak

Twitter avatar for @gregisenbergGREG ISENBERG @gregisenberg
Negotiation Active listening: “Requires that the listener fully concentrates, understands, responds and then remembers what is being said.” Point: the best negotiation tactic is to shut up and listen

May 29th 2021

14 Retweets169 Likes

It’s a hard to shut up and listen but we all can do it. It does not require any education, just patience, presentism, and empathy.


8. Start with full-stack projects

Twitter avatar for @patrick_oshagPatrick OShaughnessy @patrick_oshag
Early in your career, work on “full stack” projects. A full stack project is one which 1) is your idea 2) is your sole responsibility and 3) requires sales (meaning you have to convince someone of something -internal or external-to complete the project). After, all else pales.

April 15th 2021

26 Retweets310 Likes

Nothing accelerates learning like having skin in the game and accountability. Take ownership of a project. Launch a side hustle. It will pay back asymmetric dividends over time.


9. Study mental models

Twitter avatar for @JulianJulian Shapiro @Julian
Specifically, a wise person is doing one of two things: • Using a model to explain how a system works in a way you hadn’t realized. • Using a model to identify the best decision to make amid all the noise. Wise things I've heard fall into one of those two categories.

April 3rd 2021

42 Retweets366 Likes

Mental models are frameworks for thinking. I have written on the topic multiple times, and each time I felt like I understood the world better (e.g., luck vs. hard work, first principles, and liquid knowledge).


10. The map is not the terrain

Twitter avatar for @george__mackGeorge Mack @george__mack
Bragging Razor: • If someone brags about their success or happiness, assume it’s half what they claim. • If someone downplays their success or happiness, assume it’s double what they claim. The map is not the terrain.

January 16th 2021

614 Retweets5,468 Likes

Never trust people who brag too much. We all face hardships. It’s unreasonable to believe someone has it all sorted out.


11. Have a strong bias for action

Twitter avatar for @visualizevalueVisualize Value @visualizevalue
“Impatience with actions, patience with results.” — @naval
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January 5th 2021

161 Retweets1,208 Likes

The best people I have met have an extreme bias for action.


12. Struggle leads to greatness

Twitter avatar for @SahilBloomSahil Bloom @SahilBloom
Become Antifragile In Greek mythology, the Hydra is a creature that has multiple heads. When 1 head is cut off, 2 grow back in its place. Life is random and chaotic. Don't be broken by the chaos—rather, adopt a mentality and build structure such that you will benefit from it.

October 16th 2021

216 Retweets2,618 Likes

As per Nassim Taleb’s book Antifragile, you need to become the kind of person that gets stronger from hardships. Not the other way around.


13. Find your gardening

Twitter avatar for @gregisenbergGREG ISENBERG @gregisenberg
Okinawa is an Island in Japan with the highest life expectancy. It's called "the land of immortals" The secret: almost everybody gardens Entrepreneurship is a marathon not a sprint. Be sustainable Find your gardening.

February 6th 2021

411 Retweets2,997 Likes

Everything sustainable in life takes time. So take your time to find which marathon you want to run, and then enjoy the journey.


14. Solve a big problem = build a great business

Twitter avatar for @raboisKeith Rabois @rabois
Formula for startup success: Find large highly fragmented industry w low NPS; vertically integrate a solution to simplify value product.

June 2nd 2017

1,351 Retweets7,355 Likes

Be happy whenever something frustrates you and you cannot find a good enough solution. You have stumbled on a startup opportunity.


15. Pay forward

Twitter avatar for @patrick_oshagPatrick OShaughnessy @patrick_oshag
Never ask to pick someone’s brain. Instead have something to offer, even if it’s just a well thought out idea. Often if you suggest something, and it’s good, the other person will give you a chance to do that thing. Not good to be needy.

April 15th 2021

17 Retweets250 Likes

The best relationships are built when you propose to deliver value. Unconditionally. The more selfless the offer, the better relationship you will create.


16. It’s okay not to have an opinion

Twitter avatar for @george__mackGeorge Mack @george__mack
Munger's Law: • Never allow yourself to have an opinion on a subject unless you can state the opposing argument better than the opposition can. Steelman Arguments > Strawman Arguments

January 16th 2021

659 Retweets5,215 Likes

Too often, we try to share an opinion when we have half-baked ideas in our heads. Learn to study a topic attentively before expressing strong opinions.


17. Seek wealth, not status

Twitter avatar for @navalNaval @naval
Seek wealth, not money or status. Wealth is having assets that earn while you sleep. Money is how we transfer time and wealth. Status is your place in the social hierarchy.

May 31st 2018

5,728 Retweets33,634 Likes

Where you stand in the social hierarchy is secondary to your wealth. I personally avoid optimizing for status. Status is a zero-sum game; for one to win, another has to lose. Whereas growing your wealth does not take from anyone else.


18. Fire fast and hire slow

Twitter avatar for @eshearEmmett Shear @eshear
Letting an underperforming employee go is difficult and painful. You invested a lot in hiring them, and you want them to succeed. As a result you will almost always fire too late.

June 9th 2021

18 Retweets429 Likes

This applies to personal relationships too. If someone is toxic, let them go fast.


19. Everything has trade-offs

Twitter avatar for @jouleeJulie Zhuo @joulee
Every glamour has its price. Most people think the price of winning--of greatness--is hard work and sacrifice. But beyond that, it's also the mental battle. The constant drumbeat of dissatisfaction. There is no end to it. Consistent high achievers learn to make peace w/it.

September 1st 2021

167 Retweets1,221 Likes

The more you know, the better you understand how little you know.


20. Help yourself first before you help others

Twitter avatar for @SahilBloomSahil Bloom @SahilBloom
Invest in yourself before you invest in others. (h/t @alex_skazka)

September 13th 2021

50 Retweets798 Likes

When you board a plane, you are told how, in the case of an emergency, you need to help yourself first. That logic applies to your personal growth and wealth too.


21. Be there for your friends

Twitter avatar for @eriktorenbergErik Torenberg @eriktorenberg
Put people in business: If your friend is thinking about starting a company or fund, offer to be their first check if you can If they want to be a creator, offer to be their first subscriber Whatever they want to do, offer something that shows you believe They'll remember you

August 11th 2020

102 Retweets735 Likes

Starting anything new is hard, for some people even terrifying. If your friend is starting something new, be there for them, they will remember it for life.


22. Direction matters more than speed

Twitter avatar for @ProfFeynmanProf. Feynman @ProfFeynman
Direction is much more important than speed. 🧠

October 28th 2021

3,974 Retweets20,747 Likes

Moving to tech has been one of the best decisions of my life. Choose an industry that grows fast and attracts the smartest people you know.


23. Fall in love with solving problems

Twitter avatar for @agazdeckiAndrew Gazdecki @agazdecki
Fall in love with solving problems.

Andrew Gazdecki @agazdecki

Fall in love with solving problems for your customers rather than making features at your startup.

November 22nd 2021

1 Retweet23 Likes

Society will reward you for solving hard problems.


24. Read books that teach you how to think

Twitter avatar for @justinkanJustin Kan @justinkan
If you can, read books that teach you how to think, not what to think.

December 2nd 2021

421 Retweets3,509 Likes

Plenty of mediocre books out there. Be selective and find the good ones. As a general rule of thumb, if a book has survived the test of time it will most probably be good.


25. Lack of confidence kills more dreams than lack of ability

Twitter avatar for @JamesClearJames Clear @JamesClear
Lack of confidence kills more dreams than lack of ability. Talent matters—especially at elite levels—but people talk themselves out of giving their best effort long before talent becomes the limiting factor. You're capable of more than you know. Don't be your own bottleneck.

July 9th 2020

3,656 Retweets12,631 Likes

I am a firm believer that talent is secondary to determination. Confidence is a key ingredient we all need to have to succeed.


26. Having complete control is not necessarily a good thing

Twitter avatar for @tferrissTim Ferriss @tferriss
“If you have everything under control, you’re not moving fast enough.” — Mario Andretti

October 23rd 2020

513 Retweets2,683 Likes

To land in the zone of growth, you have to give up on comfort.


27. The story we tell ourselves matters

Twitter avatar for @businessbaristaAlex Lieberman @businessbarista
We all have two experiences in life. First, what actually happens. Second, our story of what actually happened. Once you understand that distinction, you understand how important clarity of mind & thought truly is.

November 22nd 2021

14 Retweets156 Likes

Reflecting on your personal narrative is important. Be careful how you shape it, as it will have a significant impact on your wellbeing.


28. Learn to sell. Learn to build

Twitter avatar for @navalNaval @naval
Learn to sell. Learn to build. If you can do both, you will be unstoppable.

May 31st 2018

6,810 Retweets33,927 Likes

When speaking of sales Naval covers content creation, recruitment, fundraising, and a lot of other forms of communication. If you cannot master both selling and building, then become world-class in one of them.


29. Expect more from yourself and less from others

Twitter avatar for @orangebook_Orange Book 🍊📖 @orangebook_
You will be happier once you expect less from others and more from yourself.

December 2nd 2021

444 Retweets2,854 Likes

It’s easy to blame others, instead focus on what you could have done better.


30. Be selectively ignorant

Twitter avatar for @JamesClearJames Clear @JamesClear
Be “selectively ignorant.” Ignore topics that drain your attention. Unfollow people that drain your energy. Abandon projects that drain your time. Do not keep up with it all. The more selectively ignorant you become, the more broadly knowledgable you can be.

May 28th 2020

3,411 Retweets10,149 Likes

I do not watch TV, have unfollowed a ton of people, and avoid events/projects that drain my energy. The more I become selectively ignorant, the happier I am.


31. Make highly asymmetric bets with your career

Twitter avatar for @matthewcliffordMatt Clifford @matthewclifford
3/ Second, there exist highly asymmetric bets you can make with your career - low downside, uncapped upside - and making these bets repeatedly has probably the highest expected value of anything you can do with your time

December 1st 2021

2 Retweets57 Likes

In my case, that moment in time was pivoting to tech and starting companies. My upside is uncapped, whereas there is a limited downside. I am getting paid to work on my dreams, in the process building friends for life.


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